You can change. You can’t change the world.
In regard to my post on feeling impotent in the honesty section, there is a difference between feeling and reality. And the fact of the matter is, after time, you will need to act.
You can’t add a chromosome or work overtime to fix a developmental delay, but you can learn all you can about your child’s issue.
You can read all you can about advocacy. You can become a bulldog in fighting to get your child everything he or she needs in terms of therapy and care and medicine.